I want to make something clear to all the inquiring minds out there and for my ex husband if anyone cares to share this with him. My intention is not to be mean when I say this, but to be perfectly honest.

I am happy for you that you found someone to share your life with.  No one in this family wanted to see you lonely.  I hope that this persons fills the obvious void you had in your life and that you are happy for years to come, that is sincere. 

For myself,  I can't be, nor do I want to be a part of this persons life you married and quite frankly Scott, I don't want to be part of your life anymore either.  I cannot  forget all the hurtful things that have gone on over the last eight months.  

In all that time that has passed you didn't show you cared at all, you didn't apologize to our son and my sister in law for ripping the coffee house dream from them, you even waited until they did all that physical work themselves before you simply walked off into your new sunset. 

You didn't apologize to David for abandoning us in the building causing loss of customers and money, not only in building materials and labor but our business took a huge hit from the 6 months of major disruption. Not to mention the advertising costs associated in changing to an address we are no longer at. 

The emotional roller coater you kept the boys on with their living situation and ABANDONING YOUR TWO CATS!  

Last but not at all least,  how you chose to marry that immature and narrow minded person over your daughter's feelings about it. You never once gave her a single consideration and that my friend is where you sealed your coffin with me.  I find it extremely unnatural to go against your children when it involves something that affects the rest of their lives.  You permanently scarred your relationship with your daughter and if you think time will ever completely fix that your not living in our world.

That narrow minded person should have accepted you and your life the way it was, anyone who "really" loved you for you and not financial security would have. But she changed your world and this families to suit her own personal gain and you were so desperate for attention you went right along with everything. There really is something to be said for 'fore-thought' but most don't use it, you sure didn't. 

My family, children and husband can chose to be part of your life if they want that, I'm certainly not going to be upset with them, it is their choice,  but for me,  I want nothing more to do with you and I don't see that changing anytime soon.  I don't want to see you or even hear about you. Your not part of my family any longer and never will be, you let too many people down, maybe they are bigger people than me and can forgive you, I just know I can't find it in me to forgive you. 

I hope you live a long and happy life Scott, I really do, but knowing that the relationship with each one of us will never ever be the same again. There will always be this "thing" there between every one of us and you put that thing there.

You of ALL people should know me well enough to know the outcome of every one of your actions against this family and that alone didn't stop you enough to get you to think about what you were doing.  I find that the biggest injustice of all...... 

So there ya go people, you can stop talking about it, stop asking about it because now you know where I stand.  The sooner this is behind me the better off my life will be!