I stole this from my cousins page because it illustrates the exact point I've been talking about. People need to watch the words they are using and what they say to other people because trying to take back back or cover up something hurtful and life changing is nearly impossible. Once it's been put out there, its there!  It's high time people are held responsible for their lose lips and sharp tongues.  I know I fall short of this myself at times.